Before we embarked on our home remodelling project, a few friends of ours told us this “Get your carpenter to help you build up more storage. With a kid around, you’ll need that”. It wasn’t just one friend who said this. Quite a few in fact. I told this to Dave and his immediate reply…
The suicide of a 11-year-old boy over exam results
Friends and readers living in Singapore would have seen this piece of news. Yes a very tragic accident. An eleven year-old boy committed suicide over his exam results. Apparently, he did not manage to hit the minimum grades that his parents set out for him, and that fear of being reprimanded or something else probably…
Life
In a friend’s post on facebook the other day, he wrote, “Life is a process….”. I then commented “I think life is more like a chain of episodes, each one playing out a different part of your lifetime.” He then replied by saying “Depending on individual, some would call it a journey”.
Quick to judge
I had a conversation the other day with a relative. Here’s what it is in essence: Relative: My boss had to work from home a couple of days back. Guess what’s the reason? Me: I guess it could be to babysit a child or something? (since this is the most often used reason for myself when…
Privilege
I came across an article titled “Parenting dilemma in the digital age” the other day. As the title suggests, basically the article discusses the dilemma of parenting nowadays with the proliferation of digital and mobile devices, and how we manage the children’s expectations and “wants” to these stuff, especially coupled with peer pressure. In this case,…
Growing older and wiser
The below post was shared by a popular Singaporean actor, Thomas Ong, on his facebook post. His post resonated strongly with me, hence I am sharing this. I am posting this in it’s entirety. ********** As we grow up, and hence wiser, we slowly realize that wearing a $300 or a $30.00 watch – –…
Life’s Greatest Gift
Minimalism is not all just about having less, its about having more. Personally for me, it’s having more time to do things that matters to me. One of the first things that comes to my mind is how do I add value to other people’s life. Starting this blog with Kate to share our experience…
The blues at work
As regular monday approaches, most of us will probably dragged our feet out of the house – the dreadful “Monday blues” at work. Monday blues exists mainly because of work, or it could be due to any regular set of activity that you are required to engage in but dread. But why do we dread work…
Comparison
When we were first born into this world, comparison starts. It starts with the little things, like our weight, length (or height) or even head circumference etc. These comparisons might not be with another person or baby per se, it could be against a chart, an average of some sorts, or a bell curve. But…
The social stigma of downsizing
When it comes to downsizing, whether from a bigger house to a smaller house, a bigger car to a smaller car, more often than not, it would attract sympathetic looks from around. Those that probably say, “I am sorry that you are not doing well” or “Well, I guess it’s hard with those monthly installments…